Everything takes time

Life is like deja vu. Everything is impermanent and imperfect. Even when the sun rise, the shadows faded away.

It had been really a hard time for my friend to what had happened -- broke up.
sometimes relationship is something really really fine, which always causes to be all adrift. Everyone knows how to tackles it using the correct way, when it happens to someone around them. Meanwhile, they are able to be considerate of someone but never put their own's legs into one's shoe, to taste the real experience and feeling.

How will you do if someone told you that she is really in a bad mood, serious problems happened, and out of one's wits...
I would send "sms", tell her to takecare.

How will you react if someone told you that she is very upset, that you're not able to help, and maybe just wanna lean on your shoulders to cry...
I would call her, asking for the truth and offer helps.

How will you behave if someone told you that she is very suffering, having insomnia, and crying all the night...
I would not reply. She need a rest.

You can't really tell too much to a lovelorn person. He/she would not able to listen to anything. His/her brain and mind and memory is having some sort of rapid spinning. Fast and furious. Climax to overcast.
Life is then like a movie drama film. After a certain period of time or a certain moment, you'll tend to rewind and replay what happened during that interval. You are helpless that you're not able to do anything to solved it, since you're not willing to faced it. And you started for an isolation. You keep on rewind and replay, sob and endlessly weep and wail. Still, you have no idea, and you think its bad.
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Life is like deja vu; but deja vu isn't your life.
Curing from an extreme sadness is always like faith and believing in a religion --
it's ABSOLUTE, that we shall not question it. Stated:
Takecare. "I don't want!"
Faced it. "Why!?"
Forget it. "How could I?"
Stand up. "You must be kidding."
Enrich yourself. "Forget it"

Meanwhile, some "cults" will have evil states:
"Oh.. good la.. single is better."
"Nevermind la.. find a new one la."
"Can't sleep mer? eat pills la."
"Aiya.. Who never broke up?"
"I knew it." (wickedness)

Everything takes time.